Here is a wonderful protocol that works well for both ear infections and ear aches. It is a great blend for adults and older children:
2 drops Lavender
2 drops Frankincense
2 drops Basil
Cotton ball
Place cotton ball in ear (tape lightly if needed) and then rub the essential oils around ear and down neck.
For an ear ache, add 1 drop each of Melaleuca and Grapefruit essential oils to the above oils.